What’s Wrong With Taiwan Girls? Closed, Cold, Cliquish, Inhuman, Stuck Up, Flaky, Divas

29 Dec

Taiwan girls closed cold antisocial

The biggest problem in Taiwan is that the women are very closed, cold, stuck up and cliquish, as if they are almost inhuman. They are anything but open and engaging with strangers. Wherever they go, they carry that “don’t bother me look” on their face, which makes them VERY unapproachable. Yuck. It’s very sad and depressing to see that everyday. I hate it. Taiwan has got to be one of the HARDEST places to approach and engage women. Their body language is cold, stuck up and cliquish.

Alongside Japan and Korea, Taiwan girls are among the least open and engaging of females in the 200 countries of the world. Even in retail sales and customer service occupations, Taiwanese girls are cold and business-like. I don’t know how they got that way, but their cold demeanor seems very inhuman.

To give you a simple example, if I say “Excuse me miss” (in Chinese or English) to girls walking by in Taiwan (who are totally cold and closed) none of them will stop. But in most other countries, when I do that, very often the girls will stop and talk to me. That’s a very big difference that says a lot, no matter how you try to spin it.

Taiwanese girls are extremely picky, shallow, judgmental, difficult, vain, and spook easily like deer do in the wild. They are overly cautious and unnaturally shy to the extreme, and don’t like talking to strangers without an introduction through mutual friends. These extreme traits that are common in Taiwanese females make them almost inhuman and definitely unnatural. Now there is nothing wrong with being a little shy or cautious. That can be cute. But Taiwanese girls take it to the extreme and are too excessive in their closed-ness and shyness. Ironically, their own ancient Chinese wisdom says that nothing in extremes is any good, and that everything must be in moderation.

Also, Taiwanese girls have hang ups about dating. To them, dating is a stepping stone to marriage, so they won’t just go out with you for fun, at least not the good girls. You have to jump through a ton of hoops. So you can’t just simply ask them out like you can in most countries, otherwise you will be met with polite rejections and excuses. To make matters worse, the normal courting process of flirting is considered a taboo in Taiwan, seen as creepy bad behavior. So if you are a Romeo or Casanova who likes to flirt, that will be a big let down for you, because you are not allowed to use your main arsenal of seduction. Furthermore, it’s very hard to vibe with Taiwanese girls if you are not on their small minded, shallow, narrow, insular wavelength.

So it’s like everything is against you in Taiwan if you want to try to fulfill your romantic or sexual needs, which sucks and is terrible beyond words. Taiwan does have a high concentration of hot girls, but what’s the point if they are all look and no touch? That just makes it more depressing and frustrating. Personally, I find Taiwan to have the most unnatural and ego-deflating dating scene I’ve ever seen. The miserable vortex in Taiwan compounds it and makes it all worse. 

Everywhere I go in Taiwan, the only people who will socialize with me are elderly Taiwanese and foreign travelers. That sucks, but that’s how Taiwan is. The only way a stranger can get some attention from Taiwanese girls is to look like an Asian pop star, or be a foreign White guy. Otherwise, you’ll have to meet women through organized activities, school, work, or through mutual friends. Taiwan is one of the few countries in the world where women are not open for casually chatting up, flirting, or “love at first sight” stares. That’s the BIGGEST DOWNSIDE of Taiwan. Other than that, Taiwan is a nice place overall, but there’s nothing unique or special about it.

I know the problem is not me though, because women in the other 200 countries of the world (except for Japan and Korea) are not like that toward me. They are far more “normal”, not like deer that spook easily as Taiwanese women do. So, if the problem were me, then all women would be antisocial and closed toward me, but they aren’t (fortunately). Thus Taiwanese women are an abnormal quirk. This majorly sucks because it means that in general, Taiwanese women are “all look but no touch”. So what’s the point of them being hot then? All that does is exemplify the irony of Murphy’s Law.

Moreover, even if you are lucky enough to get acquainted with a slippery standoff-ish modern Taiwanese girl, you will find that they usually have very difficult and complicated personalities. They are not straightforward and direct like their counterparts in mainland China. Instead, they like to play games, give mixed messages, and flake out. They are selfish and narcissistic – and rotten and spoiled to the core. In short, all they are good for is “eye candy”, nothing else. That’s sad, but that’s the truth, as politically incorrect as it may be.

Now, please don’t flame me for saying all this. I didn’t make Taiwanese girls the way they are, I’m just the only one brave enough to tell the politically incorrect truth about them. Therefore, by attacking me, you would not be doing so because I am wrong, but because I am the only one telling the truth. Thus, you would in effect be advocating the suppression of truth, and upholding the facade of political correctness. Is that what you want? Think about it.

“The men the American public admire most extravagantly are the most daring liars; the men they detest most violently are those who try to tell them the truth.” – H. L. Mencken

“Devotion to the truth is the hallmark of morality; there is no greater, nobler, more heroic form of devotion than the act of a man who assumes the responsibility of thinking.” – Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged

See also:

The Four Biggest Problems With Taiwan

Taiwanese people are empty shells with no soul or emotions

10 Reasons Why Taiwan is not good for social life, fun, happiness or romance

The Dark Side of Taiwan

The Pros and Cons of Taiwan

Taboo Observations and Truths About Taiwan


21 Responses to “What’s Wrong With Taiwan Girls? Closed, Cold, Cliquish, Inhuman, Stuck Up, Flaky, Divas”

  1. celsoazzi January 31, 2012 at 6:05 pm #

    So true… I could live with all the immaturity and selfishness of these local Taiwanese women if they were interesting or moral or had some sort of trait that was worthy of admiration… but there is absolutely nothing to admire about Taiwanese women. Chances are that even their looks are fake (makeup or surgery). They are the most boooooring bunch of miscreants, and quite honestly, are lousy.. lousy in bed.

  2. Anonymous February 27, 2012 at 1:51 am #

    Talk about sweeping statements… Do you speak Taiwanese? or even Mandarin Chinese?

    • Winston March 1, 2012 at 7:27 am #

      Of course I do. I’m a Taiwanese American. I speak good Taiwanese and basic Mandarin. But that doesn’t change anything. It doesn’t change the fact that Taiwanese are very reserved, cliquish and have an ice wall toward strangers, unless they are elderly, in which case they talk to strangers freely like people do in most foreign non-Western countries.

      You can see me speaking Taiwanese in the video posted here:


  3. donovan March 10, 2012 at 3:18 am #

    so i take it you not a foreign white guy 😛

    • wwu777 March 11, 2012 at 11:33 am #

      No, but other foreign white guys in TW said that I was right and that they’ve given up on TW girls too. Do you have any proof that TW is a dating paradise for white guys? TW are not open or engaging toward strangers, except for the elderly folks. It’s common knowledge. No one who is honest and sincere denies that.

    • Winston February 15, 2013 at 6:16 pm #

      What does that matter? Everywhere I go I see short ugly Taiwanese guys with girlfriends. Looks don’t matter in Taiwan. I just don’t vibe or connect with the narrow insular wavelength that is bizarre beyond words.

  4. Citizen K January 25, 2013 at 12:01 am #

    Completely bullshit. They just dont like you because your unattractive, man. Stop whining and just accept it and look elsewhere. I have absultely no problem with taiwanese. Thyey are exremely friendly. Im white and american and I dont find them at all cold. In fact, if these statements were regarding the Japanese, then I would agree with you 100%.

    • Citizen K January 25, 2013 at 12:03 am #

      Complete bullshit. They just dont like you because your unattractive, man. Stop whining and just accept it and look elsewhere. I have absultely no problem with taiwanese. They are exremely friendly. Im white and american and I dont find them at all cold. In fact, if these statements were regarding the Japanese, then I would agree with you 100%. Japanese have real mental disorders.

    • Winston February 15, 2013 at 6:18 pm #

      I don’t think so. Looks don’t seem to matter in Taiwan. Everywhere I go I see short ugly Taiwanese guys with girlfriends. Looks don’t matter in Taiwan. I just don’t vibe or connect with the narrow insular wavelength that is bizarre beyond words. If the problem is me, then how come I connect with mainland Chinese girls very well? They are much more authentic and my talks with them are far more meaningful. How do you explain that you dumbass?

    • jwg22 August 15, 2015 at 5:07 am #

      I totally agree with you. I have been to Taiwan twice without any Chinese skill and have managed to makeout with chicks at bars and enjoy all kinds of flirting with gorgeous locals. I live in Japan, and girls here are absolutely nowhere near as responsive. You’re lucky if a girl even shows up to a date, as the general flake rate is well over 80%. No one wants to have fun if it doesn’t involve leading to marriage or something that benefits here significantly somehow. Trust me, Taiwan is a paradise compared to Japan, and Japanese girls better take a couple notes from confident, sexy Taiwanese women before they depopulate themselves into extinction.

  5. Sp February 23, 2013 at 6:48 pm #

    I am an asian. The things which you have told are almost true. Its very difficult to approach Taiwani girls unless either should have white skin or a star. Taiwani Girls yet immatured not all but few the way they take things.We cannot change them because these girls have larger impact of western culture and try to copy it by ignoring their own culture. Its difficult to copy the behaviuor , life style,etc,,,,

  6. Timothy D March 5, 2013 at 2:55 pm #

    Im a white guy from the US currently in Taipei. I am a professional, educated, work out in the gym and have above average looks and the girls here are exactly as described “ice queens and shallow.” I was in Japan and the situation is different, just like its different in SE Asia. Taiwanese chicks – no thanks, I can do better.

  7. taiwanese April 17, 2013 at 3:04 pm #

    depends on how you look at it ~

    • Roy July 9, 2013 at 6:56 am #

      Hahhahahnhha ur life is a fail my friend, been to Taiwan mutlitply times and the women there know how to party, they only ignore u cause your boring, ugly, and obviously overly desperate aahahaahahahaahah this made my day, I still keep contact with all the girls I’ve been with hahahahahahahahahaahahahahahaahahah u fail buddy, email me mzroy@hotmailcom I vacation there in the summer, Ill show you how not to fail ar life hahahahhaahahahhahaahhahah

  8. Ronnie Libra January 23, 2014 at 5:48 pm #

    Here’s the problem. You are blaming the CHICKS for not liking YOU when most likely the biggest problem is YOU. Instead of taking personal responsibility for you becoming a kickass, seductive, cool, guy you are just blaming the chicks.

    My buddy put it best, “…whining that he can’t get Taiwanese women to talk to him (therefore they’re cunts, not simply high self esteem creatures who wont talk to every human being who requests their attention).

    …maybe you’re not pulling your weight and you want her because you’re a rationally selfish being just like she is. Get it? She doesn’t want a scrub and neither do you. Here’s my life lesson and motivational/crass sentiment:

    Blame yourself first!

    …Pussy is it’s own economic system, if you’re bringing nothing to the table, you can’t expect women to not choose empirically better options.

    Blaming yourself is liberating because you can change, the World won’t.”

    • Yicko Lee August 28, 2014 at 10:30 pm #

      Wtf? Did he ever detest Taiwanese women? NO. He’s basically telling you that its very hard to connect with them since they are on a different wavelength. And did he ever claim himself to be a badass? NO. He’s merely expressing his perspective.

      “Blame yourself first” <– like lol, I have to abandon my manhood and dignity just because for those girls. Most typical Taiwanese girls I approach act exactly what Winston said. 'Cold, unfriendly, unapproachable and flaky as fuck'. Don't even accuse me for generalizing since I'm talking about typical Taiwanese girls.

      I'm Taiwanese and I lived here for almost 15 years+, and I say I have to agree with Winston. Some of these girls even did the most annoying thing that pisses me off so fucking much. Fuck flaky girls and of cause fuck your politically incorrect mind.

  9. J July 9, 2014 at 5:14 am #


  10. blu November 17, 2014 at 4:24 pm #

    Erm.. I seriously think you are obsessed with Taiwanese chicks.. if not why will you spend so much time writing such a long post about how they just won’t pay you any attention.. you Care a lot eh?

  11. vince December 25, 2015 at 5:33 am #

    What make you think that what make Taiwan the lowest birth rate on Earth
    That is the reason, got it? The selfish Taiwanese girl doesn’t care about their
    offspring suffer heavy tax after there are not enough young labor force in the next
    20 years.

  12. Doble April 13, 2016 at 10:46 am #

    Exactly, That’s why I don’t like Taiwan. I can’t even figure out taiwanese personally. I think I should be in western countries. But unfortunately I’m fucking taiwanese. I hate it I hate Taiwan and taiwanese including myself.

  13. Jake November 6, 2016 at 10:26 pm #

    For most of the worlds history, it wasn’t normal to flirt with strangers. Most marriages happened from mutual friends and family friends. This really isn’t a bad thing. Of course, if you look at women as only sex objects, you would be frustrated by this.

    And seriously man, judging 10 million women based off of the handful you were trying to hit on at clubs in the inner city? Dont try to act like your claims are true for 10 MILLION WOMEN. What is wrong with you man? Stay away from Taiwan please. You’re doing all of us a favor.

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